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Nadine Barnebey

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NADINE BARNEBEY Edith Nadine (Hug) Barnebey was born to Oscar Erhard Hug and Gladys Isabel (Garner) Hug on October 7, 1921, in Omaha, Nebraska. She died on October 27, 2014, at the age of 93 in San Antonio, Texas. She graduated from North High School in Omaha, Nebraska. She attended Omaha University where she worked as a telephone operator before she married Lauren Robert Barnebey in San Antonio in December of 1941, prior to his being sent overseas to fly in the China-Burma-India Theatre. She was a devoted mother to four children. As a long-time active member of Grace Presbyterian Church, she was a gracious friend to many and enemy to none. During her active years she was a Cub Scout, Brownie and Girl Scout leader, Sunday School teacher, and member of the Presbyterian Women's Circle and Sunday School. She was an accomplished seamstress, making many formal gowns for her daughters. She loved the Texas Hill Country and was able to garden for many years. As a young mother, she earned money by selling her superior angel food cakes, and she still baked the best angel food cake anywhere. After her children were grown, as a qualified real estate broker, she worked beside Lauren in his real estate and law office, handling rental properties. She was a steadfast and capable caregiver to Lauren after his diagnosis of leukemia in 2001. Nadine was preceded in death by her parents and her husband of 61 years, Lauren, who died in 2003. Also predeceasing her were her sister, Carol Jean Lutt, and niece, Cathy Lou Farquhar. She is survived by her four children: Lauren Robert Barnebey, Jr and wife Suzannah (Cox) Wilcox of Rockport, TX; Suzanne Kay Giannoble and husband Richard Paul of Lincoln, NE; David Roy Barnebey and wife Sylvie of San Diego, CA; and Carol Maree Etheredge and husband William Thomas of Texas City, TX. Seven grandchildren will greatly miss her smile and big hugs: Kristen Maree Blanford, Alice Hilary Malvarose, Lauren Robert Barnebey III (Robert), Todd Paul Giannoble; William Thomas Etheredge III (Tommy), Sharina Brothers, and Satia Stevens. She was a generous lady toward friends and family and leaves a strong loving memory for her other remaining relatives: her great grandchildren Ross, Nathan, Lauren, Rob, Liam, and Claudia; as well as her cousins Phyllis Robinson of Shelby, IA, and Marilyn Valentine, of San Antonio, TX; her brother in law Malcolm Barnebey and wife June, and her sister in law Mary Alice Bond. Her niece Cherry Lynn Cartwright of Castro Valley, CA, along with her many other nieces and nephews, will miss the cheerful voice of their Aunt Nadine. She loved listening to the beautiful music of Katy Rose McComb and John Edward Cox. The family wishes to thank her competent, loving, caregivers from Caring Companions: Guadalupe, Jan, Donna, and Yvonne. Her neighbors Vin, Madelyn, Kathy, Laura, Jeri Ann and so many others provided a wonderful environment of companionship, for which we are also grateful. Church friends stood by her and provided emotional and faithful support throughout her lifetime. We are profoundly grateful for all these people, as well as those friends and family who continued to call and send well wishes and photos during her last years. A memorial service is to be held at Grace Presbyterian Church, 950 Donaldson Avenue, San Antonio, Texas, at 11:00 am on Saturday, November 15, 2014. She requested that those attending her memorial wear bright colors to represent the flowers she so enjoyed. Following lunch at the church, there will be a 3:00 pm, graveside service at Sunset Memorial Park

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  1. I am very sorry to hear of Mrs. Barnebey’s passing. I have many fond memories of her from childhood through adulthood. She was always so kind and a great friend and employer to my grandparents and mother. I did not have much contact with her in recent years, but I will always remember her as the sweet lady she was to me.

  2. Mary Ann and I were saddened to read about Nadine\’s death recently. We wish to extend our deepest sympathies to all of the Barnebey family for their loss. Nadine was truly a lovely and gracious woman. I worked with her husband Lauren in the 1960s and 1970s on legal matters on numerous occasions, and although I saw much of Lauren, unfortunately I saw much less of Nadine. But in the few times that we came in contact with Nadine, we were so impressed by her charming and warm manner. She will be missed by all who knew her.

  3. I was saddened to read of your mother’s passing this morning. My mother passed away on January 25 of this year and there is not a day that I do not think of her, a comment that she would have made at any current situation or recalling an amusing moment in her rich, full life. I know that you, David, will have those cherished moments for years to come. We were fortunate enough to have been nurtured, pampered and probably a bit spoiled even as we grew into our incorrigible teen years at Jefferson High School. You and your family are in my thoughts. Regards.

  4. She was a grand lady. She was a consummate hostess. She was loving and kind to everyone. Celeste Scalise-Qubrosi

  5. Dear Larry

    In 2001 we needed some legal work done and I had recently noticed your Father’s office so I decided to stop in. I had seldom seen your Father when we were kids because he was always at work. But he remembered me and was extremely nice to us. And there was your Mother. She was always so nice to me when I was at your house as a kid and she was just the same in the office. She was one of those people you like to be around.

  6. Dear Larry and family,

    You may not remember me, but my family and I lived a few houses up on Glenview…the Hancocks. Your mom was a great friend to me, especially as a teenager girl going to a new school. Girls especially, I think, need a confidante other than their mothers, and your mother was mine. She was so incredibly kind and patient with me, a teenager with little confidence who so wanted to be liked. I know I got in her way many times, but I don’t think I ever heard a word of impatience or irritation. She was a wonderful source of wisdom and guidance. Sometimes I drive up Glenview on the way to our house up and over the hill, off Callaghan and Evers, and I never fail to look for the Barneby house and remember the many times I would just show up and hang out, your mother listening and smiling.

    Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. She had a profound influence on my life when I most needed it most. I know your entire family will miss her. Rest assured that she is in a wonderful place and is smiling on you all.

    Becky Hancock Hicks

  7. David, I can only simply offer up prayers for peace and grace for you and the entire family. Parents leaving this earthly plane is a little tough – my mom made her transition 7 years ago. Amazing are the things I realize she put up with and did for us all. Such are moms. You have my sincerest regards.

  8. Dear David, Susie Kay, Carol Maree and Larry, I have so many wonderful memories of your sweet mother. Growing up only a block away from your home on Glenview, I spent countless hours in her warm and welcoming kitchen. What a blessing to have had her all these years, and what a comfort that she is now with your dad in heaven. My prayers that you find comfort in the memories and that grace surrounds you in her passing. My love to each of you.

    Julie Moler Orr

    Waco, Texas


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