Robert W. Scales
January 11, 1954 ~ January 6, 2010
Robert (Bobby) W. Scales went to be with our Lord at the age of 55 on January 6, 2010. Bobby is survived by his mother, Bettie Jo Geisler; step-father, Buddy Geisler; sister, Laurie Jo Scales; half brothers, John, Ernie and Bruce Scales; half sister, Mary Evors; son, Robert W. Scales Jr.; daughter, Samantha Scales; grandson, Caden Scales. Bobby is also survived by many loving aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Bobby was an avid bowler for more than 40 years. He enjoyed golf with his friends and making the annual saltwater fishing trips to Rockport. Bobby was active in fund raising with the local chapter of the Muscular Dystrophy Association for the past 18 years. There will be a brief memorial service from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Sunday, January 10, 2010 at Mission Park North 3401 Cherry Ridge. The family asks that in lieu of flowers a donation be made to the Muscular Dystrophy Association.
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Our thoughts and prayers are with the Scales family during this difficult time.
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. My family had the honor of being your friend. We have been blessed to know your mother, step-father, sister, son, daughter, and lengthy list of friends through both the Jims Restaurant family, along with friends and associates of yours from your time spent with Bowling Centers. There was seldom a day passed that we did not talk about our daily happenings. We often gave each other hints and direction when we struggled to find sense in things in both our personal and professional lives..and for this, I thank you. From our annual Saltwater Fishing Trips, to MDA Bowl-a-thons, and our trip to Las Vegas recently, you furnished us with a lifetime of great memories.and for this, we thank you. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.You Bobby shared plenty with us all. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can’t buy. “Today is a gift, that’s why it is called the present.” We will miss you dearly. -Jeff, Doris, Aly, Randy, Raymond and Jake.
Our prayers are with the family. It was a pleasure knowing him and enjoying his smile.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Scales family today. I’m saddened to hear the news of my dear friend. I have many fond memories of our time together as bowlers and of ALL of our talks at the Jim’s Restaurants. I will surely miss you, Bobby Scales!!
My deepest sympathies and condolences to Bobby’s family and friends. I had the honor of being his friend since the 80’s. He was a wonderful person and friend. He will be truly, truly missed. God bless you Bobby.
My heartfelt sympathy to all the family, but in particular, to Laurie Jo and Bettie Jo. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish for you continued strength in the days ahead. Bobby had great strength and was a great example to those who surrounded him….may he always be remembered for the positive impact he had on many…both in his professional and personal life and in his bowling accomplishments on the lanes. Always, Sylvia Broyles
So sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. He was a good friend and we shared many laughs over the years on all the trips we made out of town, what great memories! Our sincere condolences to Betty Jo, Laurie Joe and the family.
Hello I am Renaud Martinez G.M of Jim’s #06.I would like to offer my condolences to Bobby’s family.I had known Bobby since Aug.19,1991 my first day of training under him. Even though we did not travel in the circles I considered him a great friend of mine.I wept upon hearing of his passing. I have felt a sense of loss,that of a family member.I pray that GOD my father comfort you in your time of need Sincerly Renaud
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. The bowling community lost a great competitor, and a good friend.
I am so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. I have good memories of Bobby, Laurie Jo and Betty Jo from growing up in the bowling alley. I also saw Bobby at Jims later when he worked there. He would come at sit at the table a visit whenever I went in. He was always friendly to me. Our families worked together a lot back in the days of Bowlerama and Oak Hills. He will be missed.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
So sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. David and I have known Bobby for a long time. My heartfelt sympathy to Laurie Jo and Bettie Jo. Margie Rountree
So sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. David and I have known Bobby for a long time. My heartfelt sympathy to Laurie Jo and Bettie Jo. Margie Rountree
My father was such a great man. He was always willing to help others, and was the nicest man i’ve ever known. Oh how I wish I had more time with him. He meant the world to me. Even after losing some of his vision, he never gave up on life. And I am so proud of him for that. Even though I didnt get to see him that much after, I was still tremendously happy for the little time we shared with one another. I couldnt wait for every Thursday afternoon to spend with him. And I loved calling him after every single one of my games, and tellin him how they went. I truly am going to miss my dad. And no matter what, I promise I am going to make my dad proud of me, in everything I do. -Samantha Scales
Every time we drive down Callaghan Rd, we will constantly be reminded of Bobby. We will be reminded of how kind he was and how he touched each and every one our hearts.
Bettie Jo, Laurie Jo, Robert and Family, I was so crushed to hear of Bobby’s passing. You have been in my thoughts these past days. I am so sorry I can’t be there, as Jim is in the hospital right now, but know that I am with you in spirit. If there is anything I can do, don’t hesitate to call. Kathy
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Scales family during this difficult time. From The Oppelt Family
Bettie Jo, Laurie Jo, Buddy and family…I’m so sorry to hear about Bobby’s passing. I wish I was there in person to tell you, but know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
We are so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing.
My most heartfelt condolences for you, Bettie Jo, and the family. Although I didn’t know Bobby very well, I know that the entire bowling family feels like I do and he will be missed but always remembered. You are in our prayers. Gail and Teresa Cantu
So sad to read of Bobby’s death. I am a United Methodist clergyman from Southeast Texas who relocated to Boerne two years ago. I met Bobby when he showed up at my photography booth at the Texas State Arts and Crafts Show in Kerrville several years ago. Since I was writing a book on my father’s family history, I was more than casually interested in a Scales from San Antonio, especially since my grandfather died and was buried in San Antonio before I was born (old city cemetery # 4! in the Confederate Veterans section.) Bobby and I visited for nearly an hour about family history and decided that indeed we shared the same Great Grandfather, Robert William Scales (as I recall), perhaps Bobby’s great, great grandfather. Bobby was immediately likeable (a Scales trait!) and we had quite a time digging up mutual acquaintances. I had every intention of following up with a visit to SA, but got busy and since moving to Boerne simply have over involved myself in multiple activities failing to do so,even though the thought was always there and the intention always simmering on the back burner. Now he is gone. How sad for all of you…and for me. Please know of my considerable concern for all of you and of my willingness to do anything that would make your period of grief more bearable. My phone number is 830-816-6274. I would cherish some time with any one in the family who could help me know better who Bobby was. He was so immediately connectable when we met in Kerrville. You are in my prayers and will be there for a long time to come. May God bless you with his ever present and all powerful grace,and may you find in your “winter of discontent” the seeds of another Spring yet to come. –Bill Scales, 2074 Grand Loop, Boerne, Texas 78006.
The Schaack Family would like to express their condolences for the loss of Bobby Scales. We have many past memories of fun times with the entire Scales family at Oak Hills Lanes in the 1960s! May Bobby find peace and confort in God’s hands. Becky, Chris, F.J., Terry & Jeanine.
Everyone that had the pleasure of knowing Bobby knew what a special person he was. My memories will include his dry sense of humor and his courage. Samantha, he was proud of you from the day you were born and it grew more everyday. I hadn’t seen you in years when you came with him into Jim’s one day. When he told me who you were I was astonished at not only what at beautiful girl you have become but also that gleam in his eyes when he said your name. He was so proud!! He will be missed by many.
My condolences and payers to Bobby’s family. I have known Bobby and his family for at least 40 years and grew up bowling with Bobby and family at Oak Hills Lanes. Bobby was a good friend and teammate. We bowled on several teams together right up to the time he had to stop bowling due to his illness and eyesight problems. It was a testimate to his courage and perseverance that a few years later, we met at Oak Hills Lanes and he was bowling again. I was shocked to learn of his passing. There are many stories I will remember about Bobby and our bowling experiences. Betty Jo, Laurie Jo and the rest of Bobby’s family, please accept my prayers in your time of loss.
I extend my condolences to all members of the family and countless friends. I had the pleasure of working with Bobby for 15 years. During that time I came to know his quick sense of humor, decication to his job and employees, and immense love and pride for his son and daughter. I hope that time and memories will help lessen the burden of your sorrow and that you may draw some measure of comfort knowing that others care and share in your loss. “Angels are always near to those who are grieving to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe and in the hands of the Lord.”
So sorry to hear the news about Bobby. Will always remember the great times at Oak Hills growing up. Bettie Jo and Laurie Jo our thoughts and prayers are with you. Regards, Paul Deininger
I had the honor of first meeting Bobby in 2005/6 when I worked with him organizing the annual MDA bowl-a-thon. I worked with him for several years and it was always a joy. He always made me laugh and he was so full of ideas. His dedication to MDA was amazing. He was such an inspiration and he will be greatly missed.
I haven’t seen or spoken to Bobby in many years but I will not forget his friendship. Bobby and I attended Jefferson High School together and graduated together in ’72. It is unfortunate that our lives take us in different directions and we lose touch with some of the good people in our lives. When those people are gone, it makes us regret the lost good times but also remember the good times we had once. Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Scales family. Tommy and Yvonne Thompson Mustangs ’72
My heart goes out to the Scales family. I didn’t get to see Bobby very much during the years. I have fond memories of Bobby when he worked at All Star Bowling Lanes. Bowling with Bobby, Harold Stone and many others there was always plenty of fun to go around. In my heart I will hold the good times we had and now the saddness of losing a friend.My prayers for Bobby and family members will always be there.
The Sailing Ship – Bishop Charles Henry Brent (1862-1929) What is dying? I am standing on the seashore. A ship sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean. She is an object and I stand watching her Till at last she fades from the horizon, And someone at my side says, “She is gone!†Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all; She is just as large in the masts, hull and spars as she was when I saw her, And just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination. The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her; And just at the moment when someone at my side says, “She is gone”, There are others who are watching her coming, And other voices take up a glad shout, “There she comes” – and that is dying.