Thomas Hugh Adair, Jr. or “Tommy” as he was affectionately known passed away January 21, 2021 in San Antonio, Texas. He was born in Victoria, Texas April 3, 1964 to Thomas Adair and Laura Henry. Tommy was a Christian and has returned to his Heavenly home (he is having a good day with Jesus). He enjoyed cooking, fishing, laughing at his jokes, and spending time with his family and his dog, Sandy. As a young boy, his dream was to become a veterinarian because he loved animals. Dolphins were on the top of his list, as well as his love for dogs. Later in his life, he wanted to work with marine life in particular dolphins. Tommy was a huge fan of the Miami Dolphins and the San Antonio Spurs. He loved sports, football, basketball, baseball and NASCAR were a few of his favorites. Tommy was a long time resident of San Antonio and graduated from Douglas MacArthur High School. Left to cherish his memory are his father, Thomas and wife, Paula Adair; mother, Laura Henry Wavra; children, Shelby Adair, Madison Adair, and Jacquelynn Adair; brother, Randy Adair; grandchildren, Landon Romero, and Isla Romero; his beloved pet, Sandy; many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Tommy was passionate about his children and grandchildren. He was dedicated father and grandfather, spending as much time as he could with them. He was always there for each one of them, if and when they needed him. Grave side services are pending. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to your local animal shelter in memory of Tommy.

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  1. I miss you dad-o Why did you have to leave us so soon 🥺💔 I love you so much ! I hope you are jumping on some fluffy clouds up there for me xoxo

  2. My condolences to the family. R.I.P. brother inlaw. Shelby , Maddie and Jackie our hearts go out to you. Love ~ Uncle John and Aunt Shelli

  3. Ohhhhh dad~o this isn’t fair your time was cut way too soon there was so much that we still had left to do but I know your not in pain anymore and I know your watching over us I want you to know how much I miss you and how much I love you Landon and Isla talk about you every day they miss you and love you so much I hope we are making you proud

  4. I was looking for a box with a pillow, but they didn’t have one. Remember, The Goner? I will never forget that. LOVE Always Aunt Linda.

  5. Jackie, I loved what you said about the clouds. I can see him doing that, because he is so happy now. Aunt Linda.

  6. Guardian Angels 😇 From Heaven So Bright ✨ Fold Thy Wings Around Tommy And Guard 💂‍♂️ Him With Love ❤ Tommy I Prayed To 🙏 The Angels 😇 To Watch ⌚ Over You I Miss You 😢 And Love ❤ You With All My Heart ❤ Love Mom And Sandy

  7. I’m Missing U 😢 So Much Brother…I Can’t Stop Crying … I Just Wanted You To Know I Loved You So Much Brother….Words Can’t Describe How Much You Meant To Me….R.I.P.
    Your Brother…. Rokkin Randy Adair

  8. I Lit This Candle To Remind You That I Miss You & Will Never Stop Loving You Brother…I Cry Everyday… R.I.P.
    Your Brother: Rokkin Randy Adair

  9. Tommy, You Are Not Forgotten I’ll Love You Always, The Memories We Shared Will Always Be There Big Brother Brother’s 4 LIFE..

  10. Death for believers is a release from the afflictions of this world and from an body, in order to be clothed with heavenly life and glory. (2Cor.5:1-5) Rest Well my precious Tommy. Aunt Linda

  11. Dad~o I miss you every single day, Landon keeps grabbing my phone and saying he wants to look at all your pictures and says I miss my grandpa and he cry’s but I’m reminding him of all the happy memories!! Isla says she loves you sooo much all the time she asks when she will be able to get to see you! I love you so so soooooo much Dad~o 🐬

  12. I was your angel and now you are mine I miss you so much I love you so much dad~o 😇💙💚 I hope I’m making you proud and I hope your seeing how much you are missed

  13. For a dearly loved nephew: A nephews eyes have gone forever, his smile, his laugh, his face, where once he stood before us, a lone picture, takes his place. Gone to soon, a fine young man, from here, your place of birth. I can’t believe, that this is real, that you no longer walk this earth. Reality is, l know its true, but still I can’t believe, a fine young man, with so much life, really had to leave. We loved you from your time of birth, we watched you grow and learn, my Nephew, we shall meet again, when it’s our time, to return. I miss you so much. Love In Christ. Aunt Linda

  14. Hey dad-o It’s been a minute It’s your baby girl JQ ❤️ I cannot believe it’s already been almost 5 months aghhh !!! 😨 😱 I miss you everyday !!! It hurts 😔 😭 No words could explain the loss, the confusion, the timing, the everything ! I just keep thinking to myself, is it real did it really happen? A part of me still doesn’t believe that you left us so quickly … I still want to believe that your going to pick up the phone & call me everyday & every night to check on me, to ask how my day was, or just to even tell me a new joke you learned or to just have a laugh 😂 I miss your smile, your contagious laugh, your humor, your courage, your hugs, your turning everything bad into something good, you would always find the silver lining !!! Dad-o I wish you could’ve waited longer , i wanted to let you know your baby girl has started to grow up more… I’ve changed a lot since you’ve been gone, I cut 11 inches off my hair, got highlights, gained a few lbs, got more independent &even more hardworking, I also got my first boyfriend on May 11-2021 😊, I still have my innocence 😌 👌🏼!!! I wish you were here to witness & watch your baby grow into a grown woman !!! You would’ve been proud !!! I’m living my life through you, I am more courageous, more humorous, more self independent, more aware & open minded living life like there’s no tomorrow because as we know life is too short not to live & enjoy it while it’s there !!! You have met my boyfriend a couples times over the phone … it’s Wesley but as my friend… you would’ve liked him he is kind, gentleman, caring, respectful, makes me happy … he is almost everything you’d want in a man for your daughter !!! I almost have my SECOND vehicle paid off, I pay all my bills, take care of everyone, I’ll talk to you again dad-o It’s not goodbye it’s I’ll talk to you later gator 🐊 xoxo 💋 baby girl JQ I light this candle to bring you comfort & sending you the biggest air hugs 🤗

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