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Thomas B. Flaherty

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A much-loved uncle, son and brother, Thomas Bartley Flaherty, 45, of San Antonio, Texas, passed away peacefully May 25, 2012. He was born June 17, 1966 in San Antonio, Texas and was VERY proud to be a Texan. He graduated from Churchill High School in 1984 and received a BBA in Entrepreneurial Studies from St. Mary's University of San Antonio in 1989 as a member of the Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity. In his senior year, Tommy was recognized as both the Entrepreneur of the Year and voted Outstanding Business Student. In addition to his academic achievements, Tommy accomplished many other goal oriented things such as becoming a certified scuba diver, shot competitive skeet (Junior World Champion) and achieved Eagle Scout in middle school. Tommy was a Texas Certified Landscape Professional and a Texas Licensed Irrigator. As owner of Texas Landscape Solutions, Tommy's legacy will forever be present throughout San Antonio and surrounding areas within the beautiful Texas Hill Country he loved so much. He often referred to Texas as God's country. Tommy found great pride and joy in creating beauty and peace for others in countless magnificent landscapes..places of tranquility. As one of his long time business associate and personal friend shared with the family"Tom was one of the most honest and decent people I have ever had the pleasure of working with. It was an honor to witness his sincere desire to help and his tenacity in making everything right; often times at his expense." Tommy loved the outdoors and all that it offered. Between his line of business and all the hours he spent with his friends and family fishing, hunting, golfing etc. it's safe to say he spent the majority of his life outdoors. Tommy had MANY very close friends. Tommy had a way of getting to know everyone he encountered. Tommy was a very kind, caring, compassionate selfless individual. As you can imagine, Tommy was a very busy man in the 45 years we were blessed to know him. Who knows, maybe that's one reason Tommy never married nor had children of his own but as his dearly loved sister-in-law Karri quoted in communicating with her family and friends."His children were the same children that Patrick and I have." As one of his most cherished nieces posted on Facebook."Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." Tommy's brother Patrick who battled through the end with him found closure in knowing "Tommy fought a good fight, he kept the faith, and he won the race." He is survived by his mother and father, Patricia and Edward; sister Kathleen; two brothers Michael and Patrick; sister in law Karri; four nieces, Bridgette, Shannon, Savannah and Keleigh and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. A celebration of his life will be held at St. Louis Catholic Church located at 610 Madrid Street, Castroville on Thursday May 31st at 10:30 AM. Please come to Tommy's party casual (shorts/jeans), no monkey suits allowed, everyone knows how casual he was. Immediately following the celebration of life there will be a reception at the beautiful and loving home of Joanie Parrish located at 13615 High Chapel in San Antonio. Maps will be provided at the service. For those that are unable to celebrate in person with us, please find peace and solitude in the following.. "To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born and a time to die." "You mourn today, but the day will come when your mourning will turn into dancing. If you could but see into the spiritual realm you would be rejoicing with your dear departed, who is now in that eternal home prepared for us, and where in time, you too will make the passing." You don't physically see anything beautiful resulting from a death. You know that the physical life has gone out of that body, but that is all. Consider the fact that you do not see radio waves, but they are there, and you hear the result when you turn on the receiver. On a rainy day, you do not see the sun but is it not still there? And the Family invites you to celebrate in spirit at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcxOkht8w7c In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider donations to: St. Louis Catholic Church 610 Madrid Street, Castroville, TX 78009 Or Medina Children's Home https://community.armsofhope.org/general-donation-form Designation: Medina Campus The church will provide envelopes for those in attendance and or you may mail a check to the address above. If you wish to donate to the Medina's Children's Home.you may do so online. God Bless

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  1. Remembered Joy Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free! I follow the plan God laid for me. I saw His face, I heard His call, I took His hand and left it all… I could not stay another day, To love, to laugh, to work or play; Tasks left undone must stay that way. And if my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss… Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss. My life’s been full, I’ve savoured much: Good times, good friends, a loved-one’s touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief Don’t shorten yours with undue grief. Be not burdened with tears of sorrow, Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.

  2. You were a good friend Tommy. I remember we would hang out at my house before baseball practice. God bless your soul in heaven. Your friend in Christ Siney.

  3. Our thoughts and prayers are with Tom’s family. I first met Tom at El Jarro de Arturo. He joined us during our family on one of our summer vacation to Cancun. He will forever remain in our hearts as a fun loving friend. Blessings Always Lisa Garza

  4. Tommy you will truly be missed as you are one of a kind. So helpful, caring, honest and friendly. You truly will forever be with us in our hearts as family and a dear friend.

  5. Please accept our sincere sympathy at this most difficult time. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. He promised not an easy road, only that He would travel with us. We are customers of Tom, and were so impressed with him. He was kind and very honest. We felt close to him as soon as he came into our home. Our heart is heavy for your loss, but so greatful that Tom has seen the face of Jesus in his heavenly home. What a wonderful blessing we are to receive at the moment we take His hand. God is with you.

  6. I will always remember Tommy’s huge smile and joyful spirit. He will forever be in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with the Flaherty family.

  7. For over 20 years, Tom has been our friend and helped make all of our commercial properties more beautiful with his talent and diligence. His friendship was very important to us and to our company, and we will miss him greatly. Our prayers are with his family at this time…Tom’s memory will be forever etched in our hearts.

  8. Tommy was a true gift from our Lord and Savior. Tommy touched so many lives and was a joy to be around throughout the years after we met. Let us remember Tommy for the person he was and celebrate his life together!

  9. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the mornings hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die. Mary Elizabeth Frye

  10. You were a compassionate friend to all, there was no other way for you. Your smile was like sunshine, you will be remembered for that, Tommy.

  11. We are so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Patrick we love you like a brother and are here for you.

  12. The Flaherty family, especially Patrick and Tommy, have been part of my life, and my second set of big brothers, since I was six. I am saddened by the loss on this earth, but rejoice for Tommy’s eternal life. I pray that Patrick and the entire family, in time, can have peace, comfort, and rejoice. Love always, Camille

  13. We are sorry to hear about Tommy. We send our deepest sympathy and prayers to his family. Sincerely, Marie Tomkewitz and family

  14. We were clients of Texas Landscape Solutions and were very proud to have known Tom. He did a super job for us and we will are so glad to have known him while on this earth. Blessings during this time of sorrow to Tom’s family, Pedro and Merry

  15. Dear Family of Tom, Wow ! I am so sorry for your loss! I haven’t seen Tom in many years…I am a Sig Ep from St Mary’s University and have such fond memories of Tom, such a beautiful person with a Hugh heart! I regret I have not seen him in recent years but always consider him a dear friend…all my prayers, sincerely Greg Gonzaba

  16. Sorry to hear of Tommy’s passing, have not seen him since grade school, but was a childhood friend at Holy Spirit, my condolences to his family.

  17. Praying for Tom’s family in this difficult time. I haven’t seen Tom since high school, but I will always remember what a kind and happy person he was. RIP, Tom, until we meet again.

  18. To the Family, Tom and I have been frineds for 20+ years. He will be missed ! Condolences’ to the family.

  19. I’m so sorry to hear about this. I have vivid memories of playing football and basketball and otherwise messing around on Mt Rainier with Tom (and others) when we were growing up. My condolences to the Flahertys, and Tom you are in a better place.


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